If a Man Does Not Convey His Vision to You, He Does Not See You in His Future.

Vision connotes future.

The other day, I came across an IG post from @iamdevale. He described the time he and his wife first began their relationship. Like so many couples just starting, they had big dreams. More specifically, he had a vision, which he described as “delusion.” His ideas were so vast, and yet Kay, his lovely bride, BELIEVED in his “delusion.”

He wrote, “Kay validated my delusion by sitting across the table and committing to my vision without proof that it would come to fruition. Do you understand how powerful that made me feel?”

For several months, I’ve conducted teachings in Twitter Class to help us understand how vital social empires are. While success in business and politics is noble, we cannot neglect the social element, particularly building healthy marriages and families.

It profits us nothing to gain the whole world and lose the very relationships we need to cause our communities to thrive.

One of the key highlights in my teachings focuses on helping single women find their suitables. I teach women specifically because this is my lane. I know the struggles and challenges we encounter. But I also know how Kingdom principles work to help us obtain the objects of our desires.

Among those affections includes being in love and building strong social empires as WIVES.

But to obtain such status, women must put in the work.

One of the first strategies a woman must do is discover a man’s vision to determine if she is CAPABLE of submitting to his leadership.

A man who has given his vision to a woman sees that woman in his future; and it does not take long in the dating process for a man to convey his “delusion” to that woman. If he wants a certain woman in his life forever, he will tell her his vision.

Men of vision are consumed with the God-given call they have. These men also understand that finding a CAPABLE wife “is a good thing” and “releases favor from God” (Proverbs 18:22). 

Why?

Because she helps that man manifest his vision.

A good wife is an incubator, not just of his physical seed but also his spiritual one: the vision.

And when a man discovers the woman who is CAPABLE of loving all of him, including his “delusion,” marriage is inevitable for he has found his suitable.